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Of Hummingbirds and Hawks

3/13/2016

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The house  I grew up in wasn't particularly notable other than that it was our house and that, in and of itself, made it special. A two story L-shaped brick duplex with a finished basement, we had the rear unit which meant that I was fortunate to grow up with a backyard.  

There was no fence, just a hedge four or five feet tall that created some sense of security and privacy around the lawn. An uneven blacktop carport and cement patio were ours and we had shared the use of a red, wooden shed with our neighbors until they sold their unit and the new neighbor decided to build a brown vinyl-sided garage.

Over the years we had lots of interesting visitors. Among them a mother mallard duck and her ducklings who decided to take a breather on what must have been the trek of a lifetime. There were the occasional raccoons and skunks, but mostly it was the birds. Our neighbor had a feeder out and we'd get to see a wide assortment of sparrows and finches, robins and cardinals. Some winters we'd have chickadees which were curious enough to get close to me on a walk home from school.

Then there were the red-winged blackbirds with their distinct CON-KA-REEEEE. Usually these birds would be around the neighborhood, but on two summers, they decided that shared hedge between our yard and our neighbor with the feeders would be a great place to nest and raise some offspring. Great for them, terrible for us.  

Red-wing blackbirds are extremely territorial and protective of their nest. Come closer than they're happy with and they'll dive bomb you. Our neighbor was able to remove the nest so that we could all move freely around our homes and yards.

There were also a series of mothers. One year it was a mourning dove. Another it was a robin. The robin's chicks never had a chance. A particularly crafty raccoon got to the nest one night. There was nothing the mother could do except cry out and sing in the darkness of the night.

 I spent a lot of time birding as a kid and these memories stayed with me, but growing up in the Midwest, there were plenty of birds you just had to be really fortunate to see. It wasn't until I moved to Los Angeles that I saw my first hummingbird. They're amazing. For me hummingbirds  became an auspicious symbol.  Red tail hawks had also found their way into my life as a reassuring symbol of positivity, but hummingbirds were different. A hawk is majestic and while I've gotten pretty close to a few of them, being calm enough to get inches away from a hummingbird is a totally different matter.

A few weeks ago I noticed a hummingbird perched on a branch out side my window. I saw it again several times, before waking up one morning and noticing a small gray nest positioned carefully under the shelter of two leaves. Inside, the hummingbird resting and bobbing in the wind.  It took a couple of weeks to identify the short beaks of the babies, one male, one female based on their coloring, and truthfully it was only the twenty minute feeding interval of their mother's visit that made it possible to see them. By the time they were easy to see, it was clear that they wouldn't be around long. Finally, last week, I checked on them before leaving for work. I noticed that the mother was around less. I knew I wouldn't have them around much longer.

Last week the time for goodbyes finally came.  The male, delicately resting on the thin base of a leaf above the nest; the female securely in the nest. I got in a few final pictures, as for the first time the birds audibly chirped that distinctive hummingbird chirp. The male flew up and right. Almost quicker than I could see, the female darted off to a tree further down the walk. A few more chirps and they were gone.

I feel incredible gratitude for the opportunity to experience these birds up close. Their departure leaving me with the question of when I'll truly dive into some of my passions.   
   
 
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Pick up the pieces

3/6/2016

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I've been taking some additional time to prepare for moving forward on the blog. It's taken me away from posting on a weekly basis like I had planned, but I've made some great steps forward.  I was able to work out a first draft of the About page, which has been updated. This was  major as it helped me to define the content I'll be working on going forward. There's still a lot of room to figure out the details, but at least the borders of the puzzle are in place.

I also finally picked up a new laptop. This was huge for me as I haven't had a laptop for a couple of years now. I've been using one of the great Mac Pro's with the aluminum tower case and while I love that machine, I tend to be far more productive with a laptop. It's much easier to write when I'm not sitting at a desk--especially since my job keeps me sitting behind a PC at an office desk most of the day.

One of the lessons I've learned over the last few years is to start and move forward with whatever resources, tools and knowledge you have in the present. If you keep waiting until things are just right, the chances of never getting started are just too great. Perfection can be the goal, but it's not the starting point. It's far better to take consistent steps forward, knowing that there will be ups and downs along the way toward your goals then waiting for things to be just right.


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So What Do You Write About?

1/30/2016

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As I've been sharing the site with a few close friends, I've found I'm getting the same questions repeatedly. 

It's still so early that I'm treating the site as more of an platform to put into practice the different skills I've developed over the years from copy writing and editing to content strategy, SEO and more.

However, the most frequent question has been about the content itself. People visit any site with an expectation that they will find something that is useful and engaging. That might be a few minutes of laughter or expert advice, but there has to be focus to not only have people visit your site, but to find enough value to keep coming back.

At this point (it's only about the third week of posting content) I'm too curious and excited to explore the different topics that I love to commit to just one concept. I can say that I think a lot of what I write could fit into a "geek lifestyle" vertical, but then again I'm just enjoying getting back to writing and as I've mentioned in previous posts, I'm more focused on developing my style and tone.

So at this very early stage, I figured I would at least provide a general glimpse into the topics that excite me. 
  • Nature & Travel
  • Music, Film 
  • Story telling, Literature, Comics & Graphic Novels, and writing
  • Personal Growth, self-improvement and spirituality

I also want to record and share this process of developing my content because I do really enjoy content creation and strategy and I hope that these early posts will not only remind me of how far I've come at some time in the future, but also be a helpful resource for others who are just starting out with their own blog or online business.










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IDENTIFYING YOUR PASSIONS, STRENGTHS AND STORY

1/24/2016

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I've known for years that one day I'd want to run my own business, but I've been really unsure of how to get that point. Yes I have skills and I have a good professional network, but I hadn't taken the time to systematically start identifying my strengths and passions. 

One great sources of inspiration and knowledge I've found is in Gary Vaynerchuk. If you're not familiar with the work that Gary does, check him out on social media or on his blog . You'll find an abundance of motivation and inspiration  as well as experience and techniques that can help you understand how to get your content out to the world.

I've been following Gary on Facebook for several months and I started to see some promotions for a course called Building a Personal Brand  he put together through Udemy.com. I picked it up and it's great, particularly for the stage that I'm at in developing this blog. 

The three sections of the course are focused on identifying your passions, understanding our story and self awareness. and strengths. 

After maybe 15 or 20 minutes I had my initial lists written out and I also followed through and reached out to about 15 friends and asked them to share what they experienced as my strengths when I worked with them. I tried to be as vague as possible so as to not influence their responses. I tend to be really tough on myself, so I didn't bother asking what they think I can improve- that's something for another day.

Many of the responses matched my initial list, but I definitely had a few items come up that I hadn't thought of as strengths. This is an incredibly valuable exercise. It's worth the surprises you may receive.

One trend I noticed is that in most cases, people find my strengths are more left-brain oriented items like organization and strategy. I realized that for the most part, I've done a really crappy job sharing my creative talents with others, particularly in music and writing, for a number of years and that led me to start dedicating time to making these gifts an important and shared part of my life.

When you're getting started on putting yourself out in the world and allowing yourself to be vulnerable, don't focus on your weaknesses. Don't focus on the lack of a logo or that one thing you don't have because it will quickly turn into hundreds or thousands and you'll continue living your life in the exact same place you've been.

Just. Start. Doing. 

That mindset has gotten me to this point. I'm making strides to do more each day. I'm thinking that some of these early posts where I'm sharing more of my experience getting started may become an ongoing series, perhaps separate from the main content on the site. I'll decide soon enough.

Until next time, make every moment count.

Aaron
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Random acts of sharing: The Birth of a blog

1/21/2016

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I've spent a lot of time creating content in the last ten years and now that I'm finally starting to create and publish my own content, I'm asking myself who I am and what should be posted to this site.

Most of the writing and editing I've done has been for one particular business and was pretty extensive. Their existing web presence was very young when I started with them so I had to do a lot of work to gain an understanding of how to present and organize their content according to all of the requirements that were presented. With an existing library of content spanning over 40 years, it was a pretty daunting task.

Part of my journey in building Ten Realities is finding and developing my own voice and brand. As I sit here writing the second post for the site, I'm both incredibly excited, but also still unsure of where this rabbit hole will lead. There's so much I want to present and share- so much I'm excited to do and learn through the process of building TenRealites.com into a major content platform that I'm asking myself about my content strategy.  

In this earliest of stages, I'm writing selfishly to keep the commitment of writing and posting at least once a week. I'm stretching my creative muscles, after riding the bench for a while, to create a new routine and have some fun.
I've read so many times from so many different authors that the key to being successful and achieving your goals is simply to START!  So when I take a look at my goals and objectives, when I look at the direction and choices that lie ahead, I'm also choosing to be reasonable enough with myself that I understand the most important thing today- this week, maybe this month and even for the rest of my life is to just start. 
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I'm absolutely certain that by continuing to move forward and stick to my commitment of a posting schedule I'll gain a better understanding of myself, my readers (I know you're out there and I can't wait to connect with you soon!) and ultimately be able to bring a more unified feel to the content that I'll be posting rather than having it appear as a random act of sharing.
Until next time,
Aaron








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In the beginning

1/18/2016

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So here goes. The dread first blog post.

Hi there. Welcome to my blog. This first post is just a free flowing excerpt of thoughts about Ten Realities and a bit about my intent for the site.

Way back in the before times, when I was a freshman in college (go De Paul Blue Deamons!) I had an idea to create a site that would serve as a literary journal featuring short and sudden fiction from various authors.

I wanted to have a name for the site that would real connect with my own interests and world view. At about this time, I also began delving into spirituality and began learning Kabbalah. I'd always been interested in science and one of the ideas that resonated with me from both the scientific and spiritual concepts I was learning was that of parallel universes. That one seemingly simple and insignificant action could, in fact, be responsible for creating an alternate reality. After some thinking, I came up with TenRealities.com.

I've held on to the idea for this site as a project with a  lot of (changing) meaning and purpose. It's been on my to do list for many years, but it's only with some of the challenges I've overcome in the last few months that I've realized the time to get started is now.
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It's still a bit early to say what TenRealities.com will really become, but I can say that I'm going to share the hell out of the things that excite me in the arts, entertainment, music, film and more. 

I think at some point in life each and every person arrives at a place of making a choice-- do I follow the road in front of me? Do I take the safe and apparently easier path even knowing that it's not the direction that my heart is calling me towards or do I jump? Do I take tell the insecurity and critic within to piss off and explore something new?

My feet are already off the cliff and the view is great.

I hope you'll join me on this new adventure.
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Aaron


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COMING SOON: TEN REALITIES

7/12/2015

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